Thursday, February 08, 2007
你听过一首歌曲 “偶然” 吗？
"我是天空里的一片云 偶而投影在你的波心 你不必讶异无须欢欣 在转瞬间消灭了踪影
你我相逢在黑夜的海上 你有你的我有我的方向 你记得也好最好你忘掉 在那交会时互放的光亮 "
每一件事都有两面, 看你自己要以那一种眼光去看待它.
是不是所谓“ 问世间情为何物 只叫人生死相许”
请问现在的人还吃这一套吗？
你谈过一场刻骨铭心的爱情吗？是轰轰烈烈？还是细水长流？
问多--人家可是会嫌你烦，嫌你不给私人空间，嫌你不信任
说多--人家可是会嫌你吵，嫌你嘴巴多
看多--人家可是会嫌你会看不帮忙，越帮越忙
听多--人家可是会嫌你会听不会做，有时给建议 别人会说“利害就好不要假利害”
如果说你曾用心去经营一段感情，当另一方开始不把你当成一回事时，会有怎样的感受？是痛彻心非？是坦荡荡? 还是心都跟着感情死了?
为何人的感情会是如此的浮浅，那么经不起考验证如此的飘浮不定？
你可否可以将心比心把自己在别人的陷于处境中？
当你在指责别人时，有没有想过自己可有过失而导致问题的产生?
当你出口伤人时，你可知对方的感受？
你有感同身受过吗？
你有真心成意的去爱过吗？还是只是在混日子？
当一对恋人无法再沟通,无法迁就,无法容忍对方, 是否已经走到感情的尽头
是不是时候该划上休止符。
快乐的定义是???你一辈子都不知道至到你灵终前，你才能体会人生的真帝.
如果那么容易知道，人不会一直的寻找自己那份快乐
我今天有感而发 ， 写多了
The mirror has 2 sides, it really boils down to which side u choose to look at . does eternal love really exist in this everchanging world or ours, you change i change everybody change , sometimes we often need to learn to see no evil , hear no evil , speak no evil , ask no questions . Cos all these are no longer appreciated by the fellow homosepians any more.
Ask too much , ppl think u are invading their privacy, not trusting them
Speak too much , ppl think u all words no action , see you as a gossip
See too much , ppl think u only noe how to look and be bystander not offering help
Listen too much, ppl think when u are giving contrustive comments , you are being a smart alec.
why do we live to please others ? is it for survival ? is it for pleasure? i doubt the latter. Similarly in relationship, are 2 person an item or are they 2 individuals? when does it become beyond you and me ? and move on to we? when will they stop thinking themselves as individuals?
i once heard " if you wan to argue, u should have the preparation to break up anytime, or else if u have to go back to the same person, dun bother arguing"
which i believe is true, cos with every arguement u exchange angry words, u hurt each other without u even noeing it urself, although you may kiss and make up , but angry words are like a cracks on the mirror they dun go away.
i ponder if relationship is so hard to maintain, why do fools like us humans keep falling in and out of it? is it retribution ? or we are meant to be fools.
it would be better if one would stop finding faults and be less critical of the other, after all we are only humans , we cant all be perfect can we?
often we take things for granted, if you are 40-50 , would u carry on to take ur spouse to romantic dates? dun even mention 40-50 , couples who date more than a yr, how many times are u guilty of taking your partner for granted? getting pissed with them for things u assume they would do becos u been together so long.
remember ASSUME - makes an ass out of u & me
posted @ Thursday, February 08, 2007
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